How to Listen Properly, When You’ve Heard It All Before

How to Listen Properly, When You’ve Heard It All Before

Are you, like me, in that tricky space where you’ve heard your parents or grandparents stories so many times you cut them off as soon as you hear the opening line? But at the same time you really want those stories written down, because, quite frankly, you’ll miss them when they’re gone. If you’re with […]

Is Writing About Your Life an Act of Self-love or Narcissism?

Is Writing About Your Life an Act of Self-love or Narcissism?

When I was small, my father would tell me stories and I would feel like I could not escape. I would feel like I was being talked ‘at’. I would look sideways for a means of escape … but I knew that if I broke the story-spell he was under, halfway through, there would be […]

The Soundtrack of Your Life

The Soundtrack of Your Life

The queen of soul, Ms Aretha Franklin died a week ago and I feel quite bereft inside as she was one of the musicians on the soundtrack of my life. Since she blasted on to the world music scene in 1967 with Otis Redding’s song ‘Respect’, which became an anthem for women everywhere, Aretha sang […]

The Health Benefits of Writing a Memoir

The Health Benefits of Writing a Memoir

I recently read an article from Harvard Medical School about the health benefits of writing your life story or memoir. The article says that as we age we tend to feel less relevant—we retire from jobs that may have given us a strong sense of purpose and we can become isolated from family, friends and […]

Volunteering—the New Career for Baby Boomers

Volunteering—the New Career for Baby Boomers

A few weeks after receiving a Public Service Medal honouring his contribution to human rights policy and law in Australia during his 26 years at the Human Rights Commission, David Mason resigned. Resigned from an organisation that for a quarter of a century fulfilled his need to secure greater social justice for marginalised groups of […]

We Have the Power Within Us to Get Ourselves Better

We Have the Power Within Us to Get Ourselves Better

I bumped into my former cello teacher, Heather Stratfold, at a Bach concert a few months ago and she told me about her struggle with chronic fatigue syndrome. She eventually gave up on mainstream medicine and decided to heal herself and she is keen to let other people with the condition know it is possible […]

Waking With a Name for an Orchestra

Waking With a Name for an Orchestra

‘I woke up suddenly, jolted upright at 4.30am on 28 December 2015, with an idea,’ Madeleine Easton, a baroque violinist says. ‘I’m going to set up a Bach orchestra in Australia.’ I’d lived and worked in Europe for 17 years, performing with Sir John Eliot Gardiner, the English Baroque Soloists, directing the Bach Cantata series […]

David’s Inspiring Story

David’s Inspiring Story

A few weeks after receiving a Public Service Medal honouring his contribution to human rights policy and law in Australia during his 26 years at the Human Rights Commission, David Mason was faced with a stark choice— work for a new manager who he believed lacked the knowledge and skills to do the job competently— […]

Reflections

Reflections

To misquote the Beatles, ‘30 Years Ago Today’ 1988 was Australia’s Bi-centennial year, making 2018 an ideal time for some reverse time travel through your lifetime memories. As a personal historian who first interviewed 100 aged care residents about their early days as a Bi-centennial project, that year is significant to me as I have […]

Let It Out

Let It Out

So you want a book about your never-before-told experiences? You’ve decided to bare it all, everything you’ve been through or deprived of, every way you’ve been treated, mistreated, and suffered is about to be aired publicly. Your friends and family are about to see the real you, warts and all. I once wrote an essay based […]