The Best Christmas Present Suggestion – Before It’s Too Late!

The Best Christmas Present Suggestion – Before It’s Too Late!

“My mother worked on a highly secret military project during the Second World War, as my father flew Spitfires overhead and headed into battle.”  “I’m a descendant of the Duke of Northumberland (‘on the wrong side of the sheets’, as they say), or so I’ve been led to believe.” “My grandmother had a shipbuilding empire […]

Writing Vivid Scenes in a Memoir

Writing Vivid Scenes in a Memoir

In my memoir writing workshops participants often say they struggle with writing in a way that evokes emotion. They worry their writing is flat and uninteresting.  One way you can make your writing more compelling is to create vivid scenes full of sensory details. These scenes fuel a reader’s imagination and draw them into the […]

Top 3 Memory Joggers for Memoir Writers

Top 3 Memory Joggers for Memoir Writers

When writing memoirs for my clients I’m sometimes amazed at the clarity of their memories. Last week, I interviewed an 85-year-old grandfather who recalled precise details of the furniture, colour scheme, sounds and smells of his childhood home in Broken Hill. He even remembered the titles of the ‘78’ records his father played on the […]

Writing a Memoir

Writing a Memoir

PSST! I MIGHT HAVE CRACKED THE CODE FOR WRITING A MEMOIR. WHAT DO YOU THINK? It’s 5Ws+1H. And I’ll even share the interpretation of the code ;-). My theory is that if you ponder these questions with curiosity and patience, you’ll come up with a strong framework for writing your story. You don’t need to […]

Definition of Memoir

Definition of Memoir

The other night, my partner said, ‘The thing I like about Malcolm Gladwell is that he notices elements of his life and sees connections that pull them together in a way that makes sense of the world.’ ‘Say that again!’ I cried. I wrote while he repeated, trying not to put too much pressure on […]

The Power of Story

The Power of Story

Hannah Gadsby’s Nanette is the work of a unique talent who understands the power of story and now understands herstory. If you haven’t seen it, do. I had the privilege of front-row seats at the 2017 Melbourne International Comedy Festival live show, where it won the Barry Award for Best Comedy. I write about this now, in […]

How to Listen Properly, When You’ve Heard It All Before

How to Listen Properly, When You’ve Heard It All Before

Are you, like me, in that tricky space where you’ve heard your parents or grandparents stories so many times you cut them off as soon as you hear the opening line? But at the same time you really want those stories written down, because, quite frankly, you’ll miss them when they’re gone. If you’re with […]

Is Writing About Your Life an Act of Self-love or Narcissism?

Is Writing About Your Life an Act of Self-love or Narcissism?

When I was small, my father would tell me stories and I would feel like I could not escape. I would feel like I was being talked ‘at’. I would look sideways for a means of escape … but I knew that if I broke the story-spell he was under, halfway through, there would be […]

The Soundtrack of Your Life

The Soundtrack of Your Life

The queen of soul, Ms Aretha Franklin died a week ago and I feel quite bereft inside as she was one of the musicians on the soundtrack of my life. Since she blasted on to the world music scene in 1967 with Otis Redding’s song ‘Respect’, which became an anthem for women everywhere, Aretha sang […]

The Health Benefits of Writing a Memoir

The Health Benefits of Writing a Memoir

I recently read an article from Harvard Medical School about the health benefits of writing your life story or memoir. The article says that as we age we tend to feel less relevant—we retire from jobs that may have given us a strong sense of purpose and we can become isolated from family, friends and […]